Rodo Abad

Not given, and that will always hold true no matter what. My father has just lost what’s left of my respect for him as he has shown infront of his 25 year old son how much of a pervert he really is. A father should ‘always’ serve as a role model to his children, regardless of age. And quite frankly I’m pretty sure I could be a better role model than what my father could ever be…a thousand times better. You’re probably asking yourselves like what the hell did my father do this time around to piss me off. Oh, well all he did was turn on the telly…browse the channels and then tuned in to some pornographic channel and just stared at it, take note it was also in full volume. I asked him why is he watching that channel and his answer was ‘Because this is what men watch…’. And that pissed me off, that totally made my father a sore loser and pretty much a dirty old man.

Now look, sure pornography is pretty much something a man has watched already and has sought after when they were young. And just to make things clear, I’m a straight guy – if you don’t know what that means, it means I like girls. In fact I’ve had my fair share of pornography as well in my early life as an adolescent young man. I pretty much know almost all the lingo already, from softcore to hardcore or whatever’s in between…yeah I’ve pretty much seen them all. But will I let my kids see me turn on the telly, then tune in a pornography channel and then if someone asks me I’ll tell them ‘This is what men watch…’ like I’m trying to emphasize that this is what ‘real’, ‘cool’ men do? Hell no. I want my kids to see me as a ‘their’ role model. Someone they look up too, someone where in they’ll be thinking ‘If I do what my father does, then I’ll be a good person because he is a good person’. In short someone they respect.

Now hopefully some future fathers see this blog and learn something from it. Don’t be a bestfriend/buddy to your children…be a father.